{"id":1295,"date":"2020-01-08T11:27:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-08T10:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/insights.ieseg.fr\/?p=1295"},"modified":"2024-06-11T16:19:14","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T14:19:14","slug":"why-some-lonesome-teens-find-solace-in-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/insights.ieseg.fr\/en\/resource-center\/why-some-lonesome-teens-find-solace-in-facebook\/","title":{"rendered":"Why some lonesome teens find solace in Facebook \u2014 but perhaps shouldn\u2019t"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>*Based on an interview with <a href=\"https:\/\/insights.ieseg.fr\/en\/resource-center\/expert\/elodie-gentina\/\">Elodie Gentina<\/a> and her article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0378720618300399\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u201cDigital natives\u2019 coping with loneliness: Facebook or face-to-face?\u201d<\/a> (<em>Information &amp; Management<\/em>, 2018), co-written with Rui Chen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Today\u2019s adolescents are so immersed in technology that it is unsurprising that they turn to social media when they feel lonely. But not all of them do, which is good news, because face-to-face interactions foster deeper friendships. Researchers have discovered why some teens prefer online channels, and explain why they should be encouraged to connect with peers offline.*<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Ultra-connected yet lonely teenagers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Today\u2019s American teenagers spend an astonishing six to nine hours a day using entertainment media, not only watching TV and listening to music but increasingly using mobile games, social media and viewing online videos, the US nonprofit Common Sense reported in 2015. It also revealed that 78% of them check their mobile phones hourly. They are heavy texters, update their Facebook pages (95% of young people between 16 and 24 have a profile), share photos on Snapchat, watch YouTube videos \u2014 the list goes on and on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The picture is similar in France, where adolescents are so smartphone-dependent that 40% of them sleep with their phones. \u201cA kind of digital security blanket,\u201d remarks I\u00c9SEG professor<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ieseg.fr\/en\/faculty-and-research\/professor\/?id=2850\"> Elodie Gentina<\/a>, whose research focuses on this new generation, Gen Z. These \u201cdigital natives\u201d are growing up in a digital technology-saturated world, yet at the same time, these ultra-connected teens suffer from loneliness just as much as, if not more than, previous generations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Almost 80% of digital natives constantly feel lonely, according to Gentina\u2019s latest research paper. To compensate, they may reach out to others, disclosing information about their personal interests or problems, thus developing social relationships. But do digital natives automatically turn to digital media to create intimacy with their peers? \u201cIt\u2019s vital to understand the new generation, because their behavior will become the norm, whether we like it or not,\u201d says Gentina. So she and her co-author, Rui Chen, Associate Professor at Iowa State University\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ivybusiness.iastate.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ivy College of Business<\/a>, set out to discover when and why some of them choose online channels while others prefer face-to-face interactions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"60 seconds: Inside research - Elodie GENTINA - Digital natives &amp; Generation Z - I\u00c9SEG\" width=\"1778\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Y4mPMfdWGW4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>Distinguishing active and passive mindsets<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The researchers surveyed more than 400 French adolescents about their coping skills. They asked participants what they thought about when they felt lonely (did they worry about the past, for example) and how they behaved (stayed calm, acted immediately, etc.). The researchers also asked how much participants discussed their personal feelings and worries with friends on Facebook and face-to-face. The researchers were thus able to identify those who used active coping strategies, tackling the issue directly, and those who used passive coping strategies, trying to avoid the problem. In concrete terms, \u201cactive coping translated into face-to-face interactions, usually at school, whereas passive coping led to engaging in self-disclosure on social networks,\u201d Gentina explains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While phones and tablets (digital natives access Facebook on mobile devices, not computers) are tools that \u201chelp maintain and extend friendships,\u201d she warns that Facebook friendships are more superficial, and create a mere illusion of friendship. \u201cEven the new generation still needs real contact,\u201d says the professor, citing the renewed popularity of the scout movement as an example. She and her co-author argue in favor of face-to-face disclosure, writing, \u201cThese interactions are effective for cultivating quality relationships and enable personalized communications, including gestures, facial expressions, body language and eye contact.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Boys prefer online, girls offline<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>One very striking result was the marked difference in preferences between boys and girls: the research revealed that female teenagers engaged significantly more in face-to-face interactions while male teenagers tended to turn to the Internet. But why should boys favor emojis and girls real giggles? Gender theory suggests that women tend to engage in \u201ccommunal,\u201d other-oriented behavior, based on cooperation and intimacy, whereas men tend to engage in \u201cagentic\u201d behavior, which is more competitive, independent and even aggressive. Such a dominant gender role is hardly conducive to the displays of empathy and sympathy necessary to establishing close relationships. And yes, such marked gender roles are still valid today, \u201cno matter how egalitarian we try to be when raising our children,\u201d Gentina notes.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"methodologie\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"element\">\r\n\t\t<p class=\"title\">Practical applications<\/p>\r\n\t\t<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Knowing that self-disclosure on social networks is associated with passive coping and avoidance, parents and educators can encourage lonely teenagers to seek more constructive ways of establishing social bonds. Boys in particular might need extra coaching, perhaps through role models, to improve their social skills.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>\u201cReal-life\u201d contact should also be encouraged in the workplace, Gentina recommends. She sees the need for a \u201creturn to the fundamentals\u201d of face-to-face communications, although employers might be tempted to rely solely on instant messaging and other tools to recruit and work with digital natives.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"methodologie\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"element\">\r\n\t\t<p class=\"title\">Methodology<\/p>\r\n\t\t<p>The researchers asked 409 adolescents (aged 13 to 18) from three different French schools to complete a survey in order to examine how they coped when feeling lonely, both in terms of problem solving and emotions, and to measure their self-disclosure behaviors, both on and offline. They then constructed a theoretical model linking perceived loneliness and coping strategies.<\/p>\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>*Based on an interview with Elodie Gentina and her article \u201cDigital natives\u2019 coping with loneliness: Facebook or face-to-face?\u201d (Information &amp; Management, 2018), co-written with Rui Chen. Today\u2019s adolescents are so immersed in technology that it is unsurprising that they turn to social media when they feel lonely. 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